Sunday, 3 June 2018

There May be Tough Times.

May has been a challenging month. The last week of it I was the only person in our team to be in the office so hardly drew breath. Things have been very busy and very unsettled at work. I don't have a problem with change per se it's uncertainty I hate. I like to know where I am at and what is going on, to have a plan. 
In the space of a few weeks the director of our department and the head of our department announced they were leaving, neither is being replaced so we don't know who will be managing us or exactly how they anticipate the work being covered. On top of that we have a new computer system coming in plus a new email system and finally a new application system for the next student cohort. It's like starting a whole new job . *sigh*

On top of that there have been various trials and tribulations going on in my private life meaning I just didn't feel motivated to blog even though I have also done lots of fun things in May.
We had a flying visit to Margate for birthday catch ups with Himself's Dad and my friend Kay. We traveled down separately because I went to see the musical Beautiful with my friends Dan & Melissa.
I was particularly low that week so it was exactly what I needed. I defy anyone to not find their spirits lifted by this amazing show.
I'm ashamed to say I knew very little about Carole King other than her from the 1970's with flared jeans, paisley maxi dresses and masses of curls seated at a piano belting out songs from her ground breaking solo album Tapestry.
I had no idea she started her career at the age of 16 writing songs for most of the big groups of the 50's and 60's, or that she actually wrote most of the big hits from that era that I love. 
The performers were just fabulous, and Bronte Barbe thoroughly deserves all the awards she has won, she was just incredible, at one point her voice was almost too huge for the New Theatre!
The singing was just so good at times the hair on my arms stood on end and I could have literally sat right through the whole thing again as soon as it finished.

I also did a few cinema trips
The latest Avengers film which was great but just a tad too long.
The second Deadpool which was bloody brilliant. Very sweary, very very funny and just a little inappropriate. I actually cried with laughter at one point, again another much needed relief from the stresses of my real life.
Finally Solo as soon as it came out (I do live with a mad Star Wars fan after all.) I went with a heavy heart because having seen the trailer I didn't have high hopes. Frankly Alden Ehrenreich doesn't look even slightly like Harrison Ford or sound like him when he talks so I just wasn't convinced it would work.

As it goes I loved the film!

As a stand alone film in the Star Wars universe it works and it's a great action film. I guess the only thing that jarred was Ehrenreich just looked way too old to be an 18 year old Han Solo.

Soo and I finally managed to catch up properly after snow stopped play not once but twice. We decided to visit Moreton in Marsh a Cotswold town neither of us has been to for many a year. We had a great time and were charmed by the beautiful town and it's unexpected abundance of charity shops. We browsed them all and both scored a bargain or two before stopping for a delicious lunch in a very busy cafe come bakery.
From there we went to Batsford Arboretum and spent a blissful couple of hours ambling under the trees and feeling a world of worries falling away.

I'll close up with my May purchases because it's already June and who knows when I might get round to sharing them otherwise?

First up bags.
The first was a charity shop buy locally. I dropped a bag of bits in and couldn't resist this when it caught my eye. It's not at all old but felt a bit Deco-ish to me.
The second was a purchase from Moreton. Again it's not hugely old, 90's at most but I loved the lipstick red patent.
Thirdly I was in one of my happy places (Paperchase) with a £5 voucher on top of a 20% off everything offer so what is a girl to do??
Finally I fell in love with these bags very cleverly made from re-purposed tapestries bought in a charity shop and an old school blazer!

Talking of re-purposing look what my Mum and I did with two of my jumpers that had become shapeless with wear and washing.
She did the dog, I did the anchor I then bought a pair of value pillows from Sainsburys to stuff them with!
Talking of Sainsburys I came out with shoes and a jumper after nipping in for a few groceries...

Sorry the jumper is all crumpled I wore it straight away so it's just come out of the wash and is waiting to be ironed! As are these capri pants and this shirt I bought in Primark.

I bought this brooch in Moreton for £4 in a little Antique fair we browsed around.
Finally frocks!
I fell in love with this nautical frock on the Voodoo Vixen website but could not justify the price tag. I stalked it for ages and then managed to find one on Ebay new with tags for less than half price = Result!
I ended up browsing the sellers other items and couldn't resist this Hell Bunny pumpkin dress.

There was an incident with Nephew Number One and an H&M beanie which I won't go into surffice to say it meant me visiting the men's department of numerous branches fruitlessly looking for a replacement in the hottest weeks of the year. So I bought myself some sunglasses.
I buy a lot of my sunglasses from men's departments because I have a big face so they suit me better.

I had to go into TK Maxx with Himself which was a trial because I hate TK Maxx and can never find anything to buy in there.
Surprisingly I found a book that has been on my wishlist for ages for just £7. Another great result.

June is 3 days old and I have already nearly melted away at a college dinner, seen the Oxford Pride march and unexpectedly walked 9 miles around some of the green spaces in Oxford.
I have some much needed days off next week with a trip to the V&A, the theatre and the circus planned. Huzzah for June.


  1. I'm sorry life is throwing a bunch of crap at you right now. I'm glad to hear you've found ba bit of respite at the theatre and oiut in nature. I hope things improve massively for you soon.

  2. Your life does sound very hectic. The trip to that gorgeous arboretum (or, as we in Walsall call ours, the Arbo) must have done you the power of good.
    I love that snarling tiger purse and the repurposed tapestry bags. the sunglasses are ace. xxx

  3. I'm hearing you on the job uncertainties. I'm not very good with uncertainty either. I'm currently on my own most of the time - since January! - as my colleague has a burn out and can only work 30%. Glad to hear the musical and your Cotswold outing have done you a world of good. The arboretum looks magical. Love the frocks - did you try them on yet ;-) and the green jumper! Enjoy your well-deserved time off! xxx

  4. I hope June is kinder to you; job uncertainty is horrible. Make sure you look after yourself or you'll get ill on top of it all. Your days off should be just the ticket.

    You're the second person I've heard say the star of Solo is no Harrison Ford but the film is great, which is very reassuring.

  5. There's nothing like good music, laughter and nature to lift the spirits when you're down...

    It sounds like chaos at your workplace; I do hope you know where you are soon. I agree with you I like to know what's what and what's expected of me.

    Fabulous purchases all round. The tapestry bags were so clever and just look at your cushions - they're fabulous and of course unique!

    I hate TK Maxx, too. I can't be bothered to rummage the rails whereas in a charity shop I am happy to do so. It's weird. The book looks very intriguing...

    Hope you continue to be in an uplifted mood.

  6. Sounds like you have a plate full, what a mess at work (is it just higher education where they don't replace people? this sounds familiar!!). As long as you have ways to let off steam, it's good to have things to look forward to. Hope it gets a bit easier for you.

    Some great buys though, retail therapy! That book looks fabulous, what a find! Xx